Oh , the anticipation
SENSE & SENSUALITY
Extend foreplay and experiment with new sensations to enhance closeness and satisfaction.
Collection:
The Art of Touch
Skills:
- Extended Foreplay,
- Pleasure Mapping,
- Sensation Play
DELAY & OBEY
Explore each other's pleasure zones and discover innovative and playful ways to keep your intimate moments exciting and exciting.
Collection:
Own Your Pleasure
Skills:
- Role play,
- Sensual Discovery,
- Pleasure Zones
PLAYFUL DISCOVERIES
Share your innermost desires and connect with your partner by leaning into each other's unique communication styles.
Collection:
Seld Expression
Skills:
- Intimate Dialog,
- Body Exploration,
- Discovering Desires
Ready to play?
Start with the quiz and gain a fresh perspective on the easiest way for a better love life.
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Frequently Asked Questions
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What's included in Arya's membership? Is this just a subscription box?
Arya’s membership gives you a new guided scene every month, each one designed to help you explore your desires and spark a deeper connection with your partner. Every scene includes written guidance, educational videos, and premium items that arrive with your box and support the experience. You also get a personal concierge you can chat with. They support you along the way, answer your questions, and help you navigate your intimate life with confidence. And honestly, like anything physical or emotional, it’s hard to capture the feeling in words. The real magic starts when you try it together.
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Is Arya only for Couples?
Each Arya Scene is designed for a couple to participate. Introducing your partner to Arya will deepen your experience and add value to your intimate lives.
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Is your packaging discreet?
Our packaging can come unbranded, with no logos or revealing labels, for an additional cost.
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We want to experience more kink, is this box too vanilla for us?
Of course not! We create Scenes to cater to various interests and desires. Based on user feedback, even the most seasoned 'Kinksters' have enjoyed the boost in erotic communication and intimate inspiration.
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I rarely talk to my partner about this, can you help?
This is why Arya exists! We're completely confidential, judgement-free, and here to guide you through any conversations about love life, desires, and intimacy. Arya will give you helpful hints and conversation starters to have open conversations with your partner.
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My partner and I are into different things and have different desires, will this still work for us?
It's super normal for you and your partner to have different desires! Arya will help you create a space where you both feel comfortable talking about your desires. If you partner likes something you're not into (or vice versa); we'll help you find a way to explore them in ways that benefit both of you.
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Do I get to choose my box items each time?
Nope, your Arya Box is curated by our in-house sexologists. They've selected premium products to elevate your Scene experience.
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Is Arya going to send me tons of toys every month?
Yes and no. This depends on what you consider a toy. You'll receive items that are hand-selected to enhance your play. This can range from vibrators to lubes, to impact toys or devices you've never even thought of buying. Each scene Box will have the exact products you need to experiene your monthly Scene together.
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CONCIERGE
Stop guessing what gets your partner in the mood and let our Concierge figure it out for you.
Arya gives you all the tools you need to shake things up:
SCENES
Curated intimate experiences and sexologist-crafted activities.
GOODIES
Everything you'd need, delivered discreetly to your door, at your own pace.
Arya on Demand
The Arya Concierge is your personal, confidential companion and a key part of your membership. They'll guide you on your journey by simplifying the way you and your partner explore your desires, and intimate connections.
Your private intimacy guide. Together or on your own.
At Arya, we recognize the profound role intimacy holds within a couple's shared journey. Our aim is to gently pave the way for more effortless conversations surrounding it.
Today:
Take the quiz so we can craft your experience and introduce you to your Concierge.
Then:
Unlock your first Scene: inspirational erotica, detailed guidance and videos.
In 7 days
Your Concierge will select and ship you everything you need to bring your Scene to life, so you don’t have to.
Your Concierge will select everything you need to bring your Scene to life, so you don’t have to. Preview everything before it ships.
When you are ready:
Scenes
With each Scene you'll receive a new box curated by your concierge guiding you on a playful adventure, based on your personal desires and journey.
Our Blog: Behind The Scenes
BTS is the place to find answers to your most vulnerable and intimate questions, and to discover new ways to deepen intimacy through playfull exploration with your partner. Close the door, dim the lights, and come inside.
Meet our advisors
Ph.D. Pepper Schwartz
Author and Sociologist
Prof. Pepper Schwartz is a renowned sexologist and sociologist at the University of Washington, and a frequent media expert on relationships, notably on "Married at First Sight."
Dr. Yael Doron
Relationship and Rehabilitation Psychologist
Dr. Yael Doron is a psychologist and founder of Zugot Institute, known for her expertise in relationship therapy and her role on Israel's "Married at First Sight".
Nicholas Velotta
Head of Relationship Research
Nicholas Velotta, a doctoral student at UW, specializes in research on sexuality, relationships, and gender, with a focus on non-binary gender studies and couple dynamics.
Niki Davis-Fainbloom
Sexologist
Niki Davis-Fainbloom, a NYC-based sexuality and relationship expert, combines scientific research and practical guidance to improve romantic and sexual relationships.
Athena Gayle
Sex Copywriter
Athena Gayle is a sextech copywriter specializing in sexual wellness and adult brands, with a passion for kink community and promoting positive sex lives.
Karolina Wilde
Erotica Author and Writer
Karolina Wilde is a journalist, fantasy romance author of "House of Pain," and sex-positive freelance writer, balancing her writing with a love for chocolate and World of Warcraft.
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Meet the Concierge team
Dr. Pepper Schwartz
Yale PhD Graduate, Relationship Expert
With decades of research, Dr. Pepper Schwartz is one of the most trusted voices in love and relationships. She’s written over 25 books on intimacy and connection. You may know her from Married at First Sight or from her work helping couples navigate everything from intimacy to long-term commitment. At Arya, she brings deep experience and a calm, thoughtful perspective.
Shan Boodram
AASECT-certified and relationship expert with a M.S. in psychology, Chief Intimacy Officer at Arya
Shan’s expertise runs much deeper than reality TV (Too Hot To Handle) and her Masterclass course. With 15+ years in the field, she’s a certified sexologist who blends science-backed education with cultural confidence to help couples spark (and keep) the chemistry in and out of the bedroom.
Nicholas Velotta
Sociologist at the University of Washington, Head of Relationship Scienct at Arya
Nicholas is a relationship researcher and sexologist focused on how intimacy, gender, and sexuality shape our everyday lives. His superpower? Turning complex intimacy research into warm, inclusive conversations you actually want to have.
Tugce Balik
In-House Sexologist
Tugce blends Western science with Eastern traditions to help people heal, reconnect, and feel at home in their bodies—and with each other. She’s a certified Tibetan Tantra practitioner and an American Board-Certified Sexologist, with a focus on healing through embodiment.
Athena Gayle
Scenes and Products Curator
Based in the Midwest, Athena shares life with her long-term partner, daughter, and five very loved dogs. Together with the content team, Athena writes the Scenes and leads the Arya Product Testing Team to ensure only the best goods end up at Arya members’ doorsteps every month.
Karolina Wilde
Author, Fantasies and Scenes
Karolina is a sex-positive writer with a love for big emotions and bold storytelling. Her debut novel, House of Pain, kicks off a dark, steamy trilogy, and the feedback she got made her realize that people, especially women, are keen yet sometimes reserved to make their fantasies come true.
Trusted and loved by more than 300,000 people
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Jason, 41, Austin, TX.
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Rebecca, 34, Boulder, CO.
"Watching someone I have so much love and respect for, try something outside of her comfort zone was such a turn-on!"
Mike, 41, San Diego, CA.
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"Arya has helped establish a healthy and fun way to communicate with my partner about what we each prefer. I think we both feel heard and more comfortable exploring new options."
Dylan, 39, NJ.
“Arya is our little secret to keeping our love life exciting and intimate. We’re so grateful to be part of the exclusive community.”
Veronica, 48, Tampa, FL.
"I think my husband was surprised at how much he liked being the focus of this scene. We both like it when he takes the lead, which he does most of the time, but this was lovely for us both."
Emily, 30, Arlington, TX.
“I love this program. This year me and my partner set a goal to be more active and Arya is definitely helping make it way more fun!”
Aisha, 42, Orlando, FL.
“I think more so than the actual toys, it was just our increased intimacy, our ability to trust each other and kind of that spirit of playfulness together.”
Carlos, 44, Seattle, WA.
"Our Sense and Sensuality play was off the charts. We loved the texts, stories, anticipation, and build up. We have played before with blindfolds and other toys, but Arya brought it all together nicely and focusing on the senses and not just the act and it was perfect."
Michael, 57, Portland, OR.
"Love how the Scene allowed us to both safely open up to trying new things without pressure or expectations or awkwardness."
Rachel, 26, Aurora, Co.
"I love that Arya inspires our imagination. It wasn't just the box, but actually having an Intimacy Concierge. Yes!"
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